EXCLUSIVE! Let’s talks about intercourse and ladies sexual needs with Bhumi Pednekar | Not Simply Bollywood
Bhumi Pednekar in an interview with NewsLogic’s Lachmi Deb Roy says that there’s a notion that we now have been taught since our childhood that ‘sex’ shouldn’t be presupposed to be a pleasurable train for ladies. It’s our obligation to serve the boys and we’re not presupposed to be receivers of the pleasures of intercourse. And that’s, many of the ladies have by no means loved it as a result of there was a number of bitterness connected to the exercise.
Thank You For Coming breaks that notion that intercourse is pleasure that must be loved not simply by males, however by ladies too and he or she has each proper to play an lively half in it.
Edited excerpts from the interview:
What’s your opinion about ladies’s sexual needs and the way loudly are you able to focus on it?
I believe as loudly as males talk about it. Why ought to there be any distinction? Your sexual want is a really pure zoological response. It’s not that solely males take pleasure in intercourse, ladies prefer it as a lot as males do. And I really feel the dialog is rather more than the need to have intercourse. It’s genuinely about empowering and liberating ladies. Why are we slut shamed on a regular basis?
In the event you take a look at historical past, the flag bearers of feminism. It may be a Frida Kahlo, it may be Amrita Pritam or Amrita Sher-Gil all these ladies, they stood for sexual liberation via their artwork, via their poems and so they all had been labelled as a result of it makes the society uncomfortable. There’s a notion that we now have been taught since our childhood that intercourse shouldn’t be presupposed to be a pleasurable train for ladies. It’s our obligation to serve the boys and we’re not presupposed to be receivers of the pleasures of intercourse. And that’s, many of the ladies have by no means loved it as a result of there was a number of bitterness connected to the exercise.
Our sexual wants don’t cease with our obligation to breed. And more often than not they’re compelled into this exercise. Feminism and ladies empowerment is a big umbrella and ladies’s sexual needs and respecting that want occupy a vital place beneath this umbrella.
Thank You For Coming additionally talks about cyber bullying. I do know precisely how horrible it will possibly get as a result of I’ve additionally been a sufferer of cyber bullying.
How a lot are you able to relate to the character?
I relate to Kanika in many of the elements. Possibly our sexual experiences and life have been totally different, however simply need to discover that proper individual particularly when you’re younger and you’re continually looking out for a person who will make you are feeling higher about life in some ways… I completely relate to it. As a result of that’s what we’re taught that ultimately there will likely be this one that will come and he’s the one who will make your life full.
Even I had this ‘Kanika moment’ additionally in my actual life, after I felt that I actually don’t want anyone else, however simply myself and my profession to really feel full. There are such a lot of elements of dwelling the one life that I join with Kanika. And simply the experiences that you’ve along with your girlfriends and people heartbreaks and the way each heartbreak type of takes loads away from you and the way in which you’re questioned. There are a number of childhood traumas that we feature into our grownup lives as effectively. And that type of shapes us into being the grownup that we’re.
How did you put together for this position?
It was like, I’ve ready for this position my total life. Simply being a contemporary, metropolis woman, I’ve lived that life. I’ve had so many woman pals which have lived that life. You understand how that I’m single even at present, there may be this factor all the time taking part in in the back of our thoughts that in some unspecified time in the future I’ll discover that man. I’m an impartial, profitable girl and I’m dwelling my life by myself phrases, but we’re in the hunt for that individual, who will likely be my associate. And whereas doing that search you wind up doing a number of foolish issues and in addition a number of proper issues as effectively. And I’ve completed this my total life.
I felt that my total life I’ve ready to play Kanika Kapoor. She is a tribute to so lots of my life experiences and so many who my sister and pals has gone via. You genuinely kiss a number of wrongs and it isn’t about discovering that man, however about discovering your self in that course of. Each tragedy that you simply undergo in life takes you into seeing one thing brighter.
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